Friday, September 26, 2008
It's in the Islamic calender the best day of the year
The rain was really nice, I took a big pleasure looking at it from my window.
I thought again about many things. About the world, people, about the poor children, about the sick ones.
I thought about the ones sleeping without food while I had thousand of plates to taste everyday.
and I thought also about the ones who don't sleep at all, Just because they are too hangry, because they are feelin cold and they don't have a house, they don't have enough clothes, or don't have fire.
I thought also about feelings and values; just like dignity, honesty, purity, friendship, help, truth, or simply Love
I stopped at the last one and asked myself many questions:
I asked myself why is the great lover always betrayed?
why is it hard to live without your loved ones?
why can't you love again once you get hurt?
and my biggest question is why can't we cure ourselves and stand up again?
It seems crazy but I feel day by day that the world is running after things that it can't get without love, Ignoring its purity makes all of us lost
May be living just to live, to get money, to build, to eat and to forget about the others
to forget about the poor, the sick, the sad, the depressed, the helpless ones.
My words today for all the world are a request for a clean pure life, for respect to the human values, for care and share
That's how we can make of this life, a better one.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
How strange you are.
You are always changing, giving us new feelings, new experiences, new dreams, new hopes
and same time you bring new people, you take other loved ones.
Once done, you don't really forget the loved ones as you don't love the new coming ones
that's sure, the first time is never like the other ones.
The father is the man of ur life, all the others are men in your life
The first love is the voice of your heart, the others are people loving you who you can't trust.
the first pain you get is a lesson, the others are tests asking you: did you learn from the lesson.?
Realize that most of the time; you spend the half of ur life afraid of getting hurt and the other half hurting people
you may cry for not getting what you wanted from the first attempt forgetting that somewhere else some other poeple don't have anything to eat, no where to spend the night.. so Just be happy with what you have and never give up making efforts.
You will sure, succeed one day.
Just be sure that what you don't get quickly or what you loose doesn't mean that you are bad
it may simply mean that you deserve better or that being patient will bring you best things.
That's why, I keep on smiling
same you should do
Sunday, September 14, 2008
This time, I accept and convince myself on what's right and what's wrong.
I accept that what comes, comes because it was mine since the begining and I deserve it
but what goes has never been mine and I deserve better than it.
It's just like that exam that I failed many times, but finished by passing it when GOD decided so.
I'm realizing that the honesty is the only thing that lasts, even though few people use it nowadays.
the smiling face isnt always the nicest one, as my mom says; and she is right.
She was right also when she said that we never know someone without living with him his daily life. That's true.
During my trip, I met people I thougt were bad but I was really affected by their care and love
just like Miss Khadija, Said, Abdou and many other ones.
I missed others that I thought were my greatest friends who didnt need an occasion to betray my sincere friendship and care.
I still don't understand these people runining after happiness and sweet things in life without realizing that they are being nice for their benefit and then simply throw away friends and closest members throwing by that chances to be happy.
When I look back at all these things, I feel really proud; because I 've never betrayed, hurt or dessapointed anyone and this is my wealth.
That's me, and I will never be like anyone of you
Just because the one I am is a human one with a heart
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
during the week of the party, the family of the girl goes to her house to arrange her room and put all her clothes in the right places.
finally, about one week after the weeding, the girl comes again to her parents house to spend the night . It's called ZIYARA = visit
before returning to her house, she has to wear a new dress(as in the pic) and to prepare a dinner and take it with her to the family in law.
I wish that you enjoyed reading my small report of the weeding
Actually it looks really nice but for sure, I'll never get married like that
too big and too tiring
I tell you bye till the next article......
bridegroom comes to take the bride from the house of her parents to his house during the evening and he takes some of her closest family memebers
they all eat in his house. They also dance and listen to music before they bring the big cake and share it all starting by the two lovers.
Of course the mostimportant thing is the rings
you can see them in the last pic in her left hand; symbol of engagement and love.
Monday, September 1, 2008
the Day of the celebration.... as u can see it in the picture down ... some women come to spend the night in order to wake up early and cook
they have to prepare three different kinds of food to serve in the evening to the guests before the bride starts wearing her nice and pretty clothes showing them to all the girls who come to see her at her parents house... We call this day, the day of HENNA
after preparing the meal, the women start to come to the house,and eat in small groups then move from the middle to the house to the top of it, sit there listening to music till the bride comes.
the food...yea ....the preparation of the cakes....the most important thing to serve the first day of the weeding during the eveninig to the women who come to the party... you give as well some coffee, tea and lemonade with them.